Why should I care about my grammar if native speakers do not?


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Recently, there was an animated discussion on my Facebook page in Romanian. Some readers were very upset about the idea of improving their German skills any further. They had been living for quite a time in Germany already. Their argument was: Why should I care about speaking correctly, if the majority of Germans seems not to care, if there are so many people making mistakes?

In such cases, there are, of course, appeals to good manners and ethics. It is a proof of good education. You show respect to the host population by speaking correctly.

Now, I am afraid, most people today are quite unimpressed by such “arguments”. If they manage to get their current paycheck, everything seems fine. Why should I speak better, if I already have a job?

Here are some things you should consider.

·        In times of growing resentment against immigrants, speaking even better than the majority of the host population sets you apart as a positive example in the community.
·        Excellent language skills are a selection criterion for being promoted into higher positions. Why should you want to maintain an additional impediment for career growth, and for supporting your family?
·        Many of the native speaker you hear with bad language habits have the same glass ceiling in their career as you due to their defective language. But for them it does not matter much. They may not have a family to sustain, as more and more people in the West live in single-households.
·        People make inferences about your professional capacities based on your speech. Imagine choosing a surgeon that commits basic grammar mistakes. Most probably, you will feel uneasy about him. You will most likely infer that he is negligent in the operating room, too.
·        Your impression about native speakers speaking badly is wrong. Most native speakers adopt a very sloppy speech in familiar situations and out of work. However, when in a professional situation they are able to switch to quite formal and correct speech within milliseconds. The way you experience most native speakers is not how they are at work. You, as a foreigner, however, are less likely to be able to switch between correct and informal/sloppy speech as they are.


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Psychologist and language teacher, from Hamburg /Germany (*1979). Married, one son. MA in psychology from the University of Hamburg. More than 15 years of experience as a university lecturer in psychology as well as a consultant for UNICEF, Terre des Hommes, IOM, the EU and private companies. Speaks 21 languages.

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